APLDC book list (Part 1)

There's a book entitled, What Got You Here Won't Get You There: How Successful People Become Evenmore Successful. Ever read it? Well, this book is about change. What interests me about this is it's title and how it applies to leadership skills. If you don't have the skills, then how do you get them? You get these new skills by continued learning.  Learn from mentors, learn from your experiences, and learn from books.  In this post I want to focus on the later part, learning from books.

Actually, I want to share a book list recommended by the Microsoft Library created last April for the 2009 Asian Pacific Leadership and Development Conference, a conference presented by the Microsoft Asian Professional Society (MAPS). Now I know almost a year has gone by and new books have been published since then, but it's a comprehensive list that I'm still going through and find the books still relevant. As soon as I'm completed with this list, I'll get to the newer books, perhaps a list created for the 2010 NAAAP National Convention happening later this year!  :)

• Reading Category | Book by Author
• Managing Change, Project Mgt | A Sense of Urgency by John P. Kotter
• Delegation, Leadership, Managing Change | Becoming an Extraordinary Manager: The 5 Essentials for Success by Leonard Sandler
• Leadership, Communication Skills | Beyond the Babble: Leadership Communication that Drives Results by Bob Matha, Macy Boehm and Marcia Silverman
• Multi-tasking | Brain Rules: 12 Principles for Surviving and Thriving at Work, Home and School by John Medina
• Career Growth, Communication Skills, Cultural Differences | Breaking the Bamboo Ceiling by Jane Hyun
• Conflict Mgt | Building Conflict Competent Teams by Craig E. Runde and Tim A. Flanagan
• Career Growth, Changing Perceptions | Stand Out by Building Your Brand by William Arruda and Kirsten Dixson
• Conflict Mgt, Cultural Differences | Conflict Across Cultures: A Unique Experience of Bridging Differences by Michelle LeBaron and Venashri Pillay
• Social Responsibility, Public Service, Economics | Creating a World Without Poverty: Social Business and the Future of Capitalism by Muhammad Yunas
• Personality Types, Career Growth | Do What You Are: Discover the Perfect Career for You Through the Secrets of Personality Types by Paul D. Tieger and Barbara Barron
• Emotional Intelligence | The Emotional Intelligence Quick Book: Everything You Need to Know to Put Your EQ to Work by Travis Bradberry, Jean Greaves, and Patrick Lencioni
• Cultural Differences | The Geography of Thought: How Asians and Westerners Think Differently ... and Why by Richard Nisbett
• Globalization, Leadership | Global Leadership: The Next Generation by Marshall Goldsmith, Cathy Greenberg, Alastair Robertson, and Maya Hu-chan
• Innovation, Secrets to Success | Grabbing Lightning: Building a Capability for Breakthrough Innovation by G. Colarelli O'Connor
• Distributed Teams, Cultural Differences | The Handbook of High-Performance Virtual Teams: A toolkit for Collaborating Across Boundaries by Jill Nemiro, Michael M. Beyerlein, Lori Bradley, and Susan Beyerlein
• Leadership, Secrets to Success | Hit the Ground Running: a Manual for new Leaders by Jason Jennings
• Social Responsibility, Public service | Hot, Flat and Crowded: Why we need a green revolution - and how it can renew America by Thomas L. Friedman
• Networking, Mentoring, Career Growth | How to Succeed in Business Using LinkedIn: Making Connections and Capturing Opportunities on the Web's #1 Business Networking Site by Eric Butow and Kathleen Taylor
• Economics, Globalization | Imagining India: The Idea of a Renewed Nation by Nandan Nilekani
• Globalization | India Arriving: How this Economic Powerhouse is Redefining Global Business by Rafiq Dossani

Regards,
Gil Gido
NAAAP Seattle
President

Related post: APLDC book list (Part 2) - http://gilgido.blogspot.com/2010/04/apldc-book-list-part-2.html

Taking a L.E.A.P.

I first met JD in 2006 at a pre-conference workshop at Microsoft talking about being a 21st century leader. Then a few months later I attended his keynote at the inaugural Asian and Pacific Leadership Development Conference (APLDC). In 2007, I caught JD speaking at the National Association of Asian American Professionals Convention in Atlanta and then again at the kick-off of the Executive Development Institute 2008 Leadership development program in Bellevue, Washington. You're probably asking, "Why so many times? Right?" Well, JD speaks a lot (humorous). And on so many topics, especially when it comes to the Asian community. You can't find another person as passionate about the Asian Community and leadership as JD. In 2009 he deservedly received a NAAAP 100 award for being someone who exemplifies leadership, community engagement, and connects with professionals for mutual success.

For those of you who don't know J.D. Hokoyama, he is the President & CEO and a founding board member of Leadership Education for Asian Pacifics, Inc. (LEAP). LEAP is a nationally renown company based in L.A. and is recognized by top companies as an expert on the Asian issues. For the last 28 years, J.D. has been committed to educating and inspiring the next generation of Asian leaders.

Now earlier this year, I saw JD speaking at the EDI Leadership Together Conference on taking risks and how early messages in Asian cultures can send messages that Asians aren't outspoken, don't take risks and aren't natural leaders. Here are a few of these messages: Respect your elders. Be polite. Do as you're told. Speak when spoken to. Work hard. Do any of these sound familiar?

JD says that being aware of these will help you learn to overcome those stereotypes. Of course, this won't apply to all people, but it's amazing how many in the session said that they were not viewed as outspoken. If you are one of these, take the first step and start talking in meetings, even if it is to say that you have a question. When it comes to who's gets remembered, it's the person talking.

Regards,
Gil Gido
NAAAP Seattle
President

Your Brand: Dressing for your next role

According to Vanna Novak, CEO of Speak to Persuade, "you only have 10 seconds to make that first impression and in a competitive situation, you will have even less time. Moreover, 55% of your impact as a communicator is attributed to your physical appearance as opposed to 7% in what you say. " Think about that the next time you present yourself at a meeting, conference or even at an interview. You might even ask yourself especially when you go to an interview, How do others perceive you? Well, with the help of my friends, Sonrose Festejo and Terry Jones, I was able to answer that question really easily. Both are individual stylists located at the Nordstrom flagship store in downtown Seattle.

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My style is obviously business casual - very business casual. It's very rare for me to wear a jacket or suit and tie and I have to admit that after working with Sonrose and Terry, modifying my appearance was easy and stress-free. Just as some of you read this, I don't want to be prescriptive about what to wear as it'll depend on the work environment or situation you are in.  For me, as I go to fundraisers and client meetings, it's appropriate and even required to dress in a style that is more formal over business casual.

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So my 3-hour appointment started with a needs assessment in addition to providing my shoe, shirt and pant sizes. Sonrose filled my dressing room with an assortment of styles ranging from business casual to interview styles readying me for my transformation. I took the experience as both educational and as an adventure. I didn't know what she would give me, but I was impressed.  There were suit jackets, slacks, shoes, mix and match ties, as well as a variety of easy care shirts. It took close to 2 hours to try on all of the items she presented.

  

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When it came down to suits, Terry showed me the right length, fit and interchangability of the suit components with what Sonrose provided.  He distinguished for me fit over the size of a jacket, something I've always wondered about.  I actually brought in one of my jackets to get an insight on the size of it.  I thought it was too big and have never worn it for just that reason. Rather, after talking with Terry, it was just the right size, but the fit needed adjustment through alterations, like shortening the sleeves or taking in the waist.   Fit you can say is the personal touch that makes a jacket fit your frame.

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After all was said and done, I ended up with a brand that I felt be-fitting for my current and next roles. It was also a brand that I felt comfortable wearing as much as I do in business casual.

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Thank you, Sonrose Festejo and Terry Jones of Nordstrom for your great service and a very special thanks to Julie Sotomura of Photomura Images for taking these fantastic photos, Rory Dufault for shoes and Lani for alterations.

Regards,
Gil Gido
NAAAP Seattle
President

Calling cards:
Sonrose Festejo Individualist and Special Occasion Department manager
Nordstrom Flagship | Downtown Seattle
500 Pine St. Suite 500, Seattle, Washington 98101
206-628-1230

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Nordstrom Flagship | Downtown Seattle
500 Pine St. Suite 500, Seattle, Washington 98101
206-628-1220

Rory Dufault Men's Shoes
Nordstrom Flagship | Downtown Seattle
500 Pine St. Suite 500, Seattle, Washington 98101
206-628-1500

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